I started this blog about a year ago as I was recovering from surgery. Initially it was to give me something to do besides watch television during the long days of immobile recovery. My stats tell me that my blog does get visitors, but for some odd reason it is only very rarely that anyone leaves a comment. Should I ask for comments or are my rantings just so boring or out there that people are speechless? Yikes…perhaps it’s only one person…
I don’t suppose that I’m alone in the universe, in fact the evidence that at least one person checks in on me now and again tells me I’m not. However, sometimes events can certainly lead you to the conclusion that you’re alone in the world. Now, I’m actually an optimist at heart, although at times I get the lost, abandoned feeling. I think that’s normal. I do believe that things get better and there’s always a bright side; I couldn’t survive otherwise. Life truly is all about choices and I choose to be happy for the most part. Life’s too short to be otherwise.
Many years ago I heard a Zig Ziglar speech where he commented that whenever he hears someone say they’re having the worst day, he always thinks “Compared to what?” He believes – rightly so – that you’re going to spend a lot more time dead than alive and should be happy for each and every day. If you don’t believe that, just try missing one of them! Don’t ask me what else he had to say, but that one nugget has stuck with me almost 20 years now, so the impact was profound on me at the very least.
It’s interesting when you think back on the things that stick with you for a lifetime. I don’t remember too much about fifth grade except that my penmanship was finally good enough to earn my very first ballpoint pen, I had a very tall teacher named Miss Stork, and she had a quote written at the top of the blackboard in permanent marker that said, “If something is worth doing, it is worth doing well.” That quote kind of goes hand in hand with another one I saw years later that goes, “If you don’t make time to do it right, you will make time to do it over.” Profound. Impact.
Oh, and that moment when you think you’re all alone? Look around and see how many you actually have in your support circle. Family, friends, and sometimes even co-workers are there for you in many ways. Like the bank commercial says, "You're richer than you think." Isn't that the truth?